hmm... one update after a long time...got sth in my mind... to make things clearer, this involves 2 pple, A who did things tat upset me n B who now is kinda like my good fren ba... B asked me to forgive A for the things he did to me juz like the way i forgave B for sth else... though watever A did was many months back, i still cant forget abt those incidents... no matter how i think abt it, there's simply no way i can compromise my principles for someone who treated like tat in the past... even as the matters happened, there wasnt even a simple apology... juz cos i forgave B doesnt mean i can forgo everything n let A have a chance of entering my life n shattering it again ba... perhaps wat's diff abt A n B is tat i feel B is the grateful sort... i was willing to forgive n forget cos i felt tat he could be a good fren ba... but sad to say, A certainly has done nth tat has made me change my impression of him at all... to put it simply, to me he has never changed for the better since tat fateful day when i decided to give up my hopes on him... sigh...